God damn women!!!!!

[nick_hegel]

Man do I ever need to vent. Back in Jan of 04 I broke up with a girlfriend of about 2.5 years. I poured myself into being the best guy I could be to her. Granted I made some mistakes and we fought some, but I stayed honest and loyal to her (btw she cheated once). We broke up because her parents found out that we slept together and wouldn't let us talk. I know it sounds kinda high school! Needless to say it broke my heart to go without any contact with her. About six months later we talked over the phone and she decided that she was too young to date me. I was fine with that! She was difficult for me to handle emotionally and it was more of a relief to not have her around. And now here is the kicker..... she is ****ing engaged!!!! Granted a person can grow and change a lot in one year, but damn it just pisses me off. Thanks for letting me vent!!!!

edit: forgot to mention last I knew of her was that she was 18 without a drivers license and still had NOT graduated!!! Without me she had no life!! I saw her about 9 months after we broke up and she gained about 25-30 lbs and her fiance drives a rusted out Corsica. To think I let her ride in the TI!!! :no:

[jflip2002]

If that's the case, you're better off without her. And besides.... Girls like dickheads. Every guy will treat a hot girl nicely. You gotta act like you're too good for them, then treat em good once you got em lol. That's how I got mine = \

[robcarync]

18...not even a drivers license....cant graduate on time?

seems to me you are better off without her...honestly

i know she was special to you and all...but i mean...seems to me she was going nowhere...she seems to lack responsibility

how old are you...did you graduate?

[nick_hegel]

18...not even a drivers license....cant graduate on time?

seems to me you are better off without her...honestly

i know she was special to you and all...but i mean...seems to me she was going nowhere...she seems to lack responsibility

how old are you...did you graduate?I'm 20 and turn 21 in August. You are right! I know I'm better off without her, but hearing news like that is just messing with my head. Sis the kind of person that just latches on and sucks a man dry. I even moved out to be closer to her.

[robcarync]

yeah man i can understand how thatd bother you...dont dwell on it though...

like i said...its for the best...shes going nowhere

[aceyx]

I poured myself into being the best guy I could be to her.
that's your problem right there. always, always just be yourself. i'm a bit of a jerk, but i'm honest with myself and embrace it for the time being.

when the right one comes along, being a better person comes naturally and effortlessly. ain't nothin more beautiful than that.


and be sure to send the newlyweds a fresh set of cinderblocks for the trailer.

[robcarync]

and be sure to send the newlyweds a fresh set of cinderblocks for the trailer.

HAHAHA you are funny dude...makes me laugh out loud!

[nick_hegel]

and be sure to send the newlyweds a fresh set of cinderblocks for the trailer. Amazingly enough you might be right on the dot with the trailer!! lmao. Thanks cuz I needed a good laugh! :biggrin:

[Dredder]

Too bad you didnt get her on film. My advice, hot girls are to be treated nasty. You gotta woop that p**sy, not let that p**sy woop on you. Whats wrong with you boy? Think, in america (north that is) there's a 3 to 1 ratio. That's 3 p**sy for every 1 pole. So go out there and be like Ron Jeremy.

[nick_hegel]

Too bad you didnt get her on film. My advice, hot girls are to be treated nasty. You gotta woop that p**sy, not let that p**sy woop on you. Whats wrong with you boy? Think, in america (north that is) there's a 3 to 1 ratio. That's 3 p**sy for every 1 pole. So go out there and be like Ron Jeremy. I did have some pics (no film :ashamed: ) lmao

[myblueTI]

Dude you need the kind of girl that values your car. I mean the kind of girl that likes cars. I mean how hot would it be if you found a hot girl that drove an M3 :rockon: or even any kind of bmw that would rock !!

[cali-ti]

that's your problem right there. always, always just be yourself. i'm a bit of a jerk, but i'm honest with myself and embrace it for the time being.

when the right one comes along, being a better person comes naturally and effortlessly. ain't nothin more beautiful than that.

and be sure to send the newlyweds a fresh set of cinderblocks for the trailer.
amen on all counts! be glad you escaped with your life. sigh a big sigh of relief! drive your ti with the windows down and breathe that fresh free air ... woooooohoooooooo ...

[2ndBimmer]

Think, in america (north that is) there's a 3 to 1 ratio. That's 3 p**sy for every 1 pole. So go out there and be like Ron Jeremy.


Actually, says the geek, the overal percentage of women to men in the USA is 50.9% to 49.1% (Census 2000). For Minnesota, its the same.

Mississippi has the best ratio, 91.7 male to every 100 female.
On that note: dont move to Alaska.

[robcarync]

I did have some pics

POST EM! POST EM! POST EM!

[robbie-z]

hey man,
i went through the same sort of thing. dated this girl for like 3 years... things seemed pretty good then out of no where she comes out one day and says she needs to break things off because of how she was working and going to school. i'm cool with it because i think enough of her to not want to hold her back. turns out that she's been doing some other guy for close to a year. just found out the other day that her and the other guy are going to get married. this is kinda funny though... she gets in a pretty bad accident, putting the car halfway off a bridge that's about 200 feet high (totalled the other guy's car but wasn't hurt) and i'm the one she calls. i couldn't be too sympathetic with her. i told her that next time she should try harder instead of wrecking half assed... yeah, i'm a jerk, but it was never like that until after i knew about the other guy...

[robcarync]

well damn shes been sleeping with another guy for a year...id be a jerk to her as well!

you are so WITTY! that response is classic!

[cali-ti]

she gets in a pretty bad accident, putting the car halfway off a bridge that's about 200 feet high (totalled the other guy's car but wasn't hurt) and i'm the one she calls.
her guy was probably unreachable because he was "busy" with some other chick.

i don't get women like that. at least have the common decency to break up with the guy so he can move on. LAME! may she eventually come to experience a cheating partner...

[Dredder]

You guys are a bunch of wuzzzzzzz....When they come begging you back is the best part of the breakup.......That's when you exploit the situation! Be very nice to them. No need to be a jerk. Make them realize what they are missing. Then get the cam rolling and post it all over the internet................Look what happened to Paris Hilton.

[nick_hegel]

you are so WITTY! that response is classic! Agreed!

[robbie-z]

witty? you guys are gonna make me blush. i just don't pull any punches, if i'm thinking something, i say it.

[myblueTI]

this reminds me of Happy Gilmore when the grandma asks hows that nice girlfriend of yours and he replies "oh shes dead, she fell off a cliff and died on impact" HAHA :hahano:

[nick_hegel]

I love that line!! hahaha

[L84THSKY]

Quality over quantity my friend. I would request an IQ test first :no:




Mississippi has the best ratio, 91.7 male to every 100 female.

[96cali]

Actually, says the geek, the overal percentage of women to men in the USA is 50.9% to 49.1% (Census 2000). For Minnesota, its the same.

Mississippi has the best ratio, 91.7 male to every 100 female.
On that note: dont move to Alaska.

I thought that 3:1 ratio was a little high. Dredder- was there a civil war in Oregon that we missed that took out all the men? Or maybe you live a natural oddity like those "gravity spots" you see down south. Maybe a "Pu**y Spot"?

Wait, that's Vegas.

[durnadupa]

Women are leeches, blood thirsty leeches. When they let go you can't seem to forget them and always reach to that old leech bite. I am sorry, not in a good mood, love the girl hate what she is doing to me now...
I was amazing to her in every way, every one of her girls joked around and yelled at their boyfriends to be more like me. Guys get their gf a rose for V-day, I make her a dozen duct tape roses and get 12 sent to her homeroom. Her birthday people get her CDs, i get her her dreampet of a Flying Squirrel. Christmas I get her the necklace she's wanted for years. Take her to NYC to see the opening of the penguin documentary (she loves those birds). Everything for her, and I get my heart torn out and ripped open.
Be a jerk, it hurts less.

[robcarync]

Quality over quantity my friend. I would request an IQ test first


Quote:
Originally Posted by 2ndBimmer

Mississippi has the best ratio, 91.7 male to every 100 female.

my mom is from Mississippi!

granted the reason why my parents are successful is because they got their ass away from that god forsaken place...but still!

[roadrash]

I would request an IQ test first :no:

And a tooth count.

You may or may not be aware that the toothbrush was invented in Mississippi. If it had been invented in any other state, it would have been called the TEETHbrush. :biggrin:

heh heh... that's an oldie but a goodie.

[cali-ti]

Women are leeches, blood thirsty leeches. When they let go you can't seem to forget them and always reach to that old leech bite. I am sorry, not in a good mood, love the girl hate what she is doing to me now...
I was amazing to her in every way, every one of her girls joked around and yelled at their boyfriends to be more like me. Guys get their gf a rose for V-day, I make her a dozen duct tape roses and get 12 sent to her homeroom. Her birthday people get her CDs, i get her her dreampet of a Flying Squirrel. Christmas I get her the necklace she's wanted for years. Take her to NYC to see the opening of the penguin documentary (she loves those birds). Everything for her, and I get my heart torn out and ripped open.
Be a jerk, it hurts less.
not that this is right (it sure shouldn't be how it works), but i find if you give TOO much, then they tend to talk on you or not appreciate it. when you tend to be more "controlled" in your giving, they want you more. go figure ...

[durnadupa]

I have about given up... I see her alot, for lunch, dinner, movie what not... But it isn't the same, and I can't deal with that crap. I want her so badly, but if I can't I can't keep making myself go crazy over her.
I am ruining myself, because of a stupid girl that I care so deeply about. It sucks, and I am starting to realize it. People even tell me now that I am too nice to her, even when she keeps on tearing out my heart. I know I shouldnt, but can't help it. I want so badly to be there for her, but apparently she doesn't.
Went to a party last nite, she calls me for directions... I tell her them, just because it'd be nice to see her there. She brings her ex-coworker with her, this guy I am sure is a nice guy but a crummy person. Impregnated a few thats all... I saw them walk in, I hit the bottle right away. I swear I saw them kiss, it felt like a dagger in my drunken stupor.
He left and me and her sat on the couch inside ( we bother weren't capable of leaving, dunkity drunk) and we chatted. Everytime I talk to her I want to tell her what is bothering me but I can't, I don't want to annoy her and have her want me out of her life completely. But she got cold, and said she was going to get her blanket outa the car. Me being the stupid nice guy I am go and get that for her down the block, and come back and let her take the couch and pillow and blanket. I was on hardwood floor, I think I am too nice and maybe that is why it hurts so badly. I give up...

[fun2drive]

I tell you what. You just were treated to a case of wisdom. In about 10 years you will have to think hard about what her name is.
From my experience with women I can tell you that she was just ready to either get married or engaged and you just happened to be part of that even if it was the end part where you exited.
I learned a long time ago that looks are great to get attracted to but the personality is what makes a relationship last.
After 3 months you know if this person is one you can live with or not the rest of your life.

There are many wonderful women out there that are looking for a good man. I know you have learned from this and from your description of this woman would you really want to be engaged or married to her????