Congrats! What year is the car? OBD 1 is 3 button | OBD2 is a 2 button , I have a alarm module for a obd2 with the LED i will gladly send to you, just gotta get a FOB which I know where to get them for cheap.
Oil leak(from filter housing I believe)
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