I do not know which is worse, watching your dad die a lingering death (I did 5 years ago) or your situation where it was so sudden? I at least got to say my peace and felt good about that. I suspect you had no warning he was going?
The best advise I got when my dad died was "think of your dad a lot, but, do not think of him a LOT when you do". I guess in there is the do not dwell upon it message. It has been good advise. I feel for you... |