I think we have a love match here.
If you two pull everything but the front seat(s) you could meet in PA or WV and avoid shipping. Probably 4 hrs driving for each of you. Done.
Campaiar- not a big deal but a '96 rear seat will not have headrests. Wouldn't stop me from swapping. While my red seats were loose I took them to Froggy's car wash in Mariemont and they steam extracted both fronts and the rear bench for $30. Just dropped them off, picked them up later that day.