for what its worth, I just chatted the old lady up and she said no....
I tried telling her it was only like 7 hours away and that we'd have all that time to ourselves during the drive (maybe that was the killer) but yeah, no, kitchen pass REVOKED! since I'm not up for yet another ex-wife, I'm gonna sit this one out. but know that I was totally wanting to and have driven farther for meetups (when it comes to her E38
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