Diagnosing the rear end,
1. No play in any parts other than a small amount of wind up in the
rear end. Should be small, IE you can trotate the drive line a wee bit
with the wheels locked.
2. Yes if you can get a reman CV axle assembly its better because it saves the
disambly and rebuilt cost UNLESS you do it yourself. Its not THAT
hard. If you can get it out you can likely rebuild it. But last time I
price shoped this operation it was even cheaper than just the parts.
3. Its normal for small glitter sized metal to show up in the diff fluid,
NO shards of metal. I pull the rear diff cover annually to service
and inspect the internals. ALL my gearboxes get anual fresh Redline.
4. Rear ends are rebuildable. Any good mechanic should be able to do it,
tip: 4x4 shops do gear setup ALL the time. They may be a good option.
All it is is 3 or 4 bearings and some gaskets and shims(Usually you
re-use the same shim set and check the gear setup. 9 out of 10 times its
perfect. not rocket science. Its only scary the first time....
Its usually
economical becasue you can remove the diff an take it in for a
benchtop rebuild. Typical setup for a gear set is $150 (Usually
including shims if needed.)
5. Non serviceable u-joints Are usually serviceable. Find a GOOD
drive line shop. IF they cant service them it would be very un-usual.
My local shop charges about $35 to do the swap plus the parts.
Good Luck
Dave