OMG!!! Can't decide on wheels NEED HELP!!!

[98 318Ti(m)]

Never thought a decision for wheels could be so hard, but so many factors in equasion.

I want black face wheels with chrome or aluminum lip, like full face rim, don't like seeing brakes.

I want 17" or 18" staggered 8 & 9 or 8.5 & 9.5. I have a RD 1.2 drop in car.

I like wheels that have a dish also. I don't know offsets that will work with certain width rims and work in conjunction with lower kit.

Those are just my prefrences. I am open to any options.

I WANNA BE RIDIN ON RIMS BUT INSTEAD I AM SURFING WHEEL OPTIONS STRESSING AND PULLING MY HAIR OUT!!!

Thanks guys