Update . I got a new harness . Wouldn't turn over ... This is the sweet and simple to the whole wiring thing is
recap
My car :
318ti 1996 with ews (obd2)
Engine :
Single vanos m50 (1993)with the same year wiring harness (obd1) and red label 413 motronic ecu (obd1).
(The silver label 413 will not work )
To get it to start you must do the following .
1. Check your grounds
Step 2 can be skipped if your engine harness you are using can from a car without ews . 2.Clip pin #66 on the DME plug .
This disables your ews from your dme.
(This will allow you to get spark and fuel)
Step 3
-For the starter you need to open the glove box. Remove the screws holding the glove box in . There are 4 on the front and on on the side .
Look for the plug with the big blk/yellow wire , Clip it . On the same clip look for the big green wire that has the same guage and the blk/yellow one , clip it . Strip both wires and solder them together .
Turn the key to test starter.